26 July 2022





Generational Wealth: Self-Sufficiency & Good Health



In my family, the admonition, "You'll never get rich if you work for someone else!" was often repeated by my parents, grandparents and great-grandparents until we started it saying it ourselves.


Many of them were entrepreneurs, selling goods and services: building, performing mechanical and construction repairs, cleaning, teaching, sewing, picking and growing. My relatives may not have ever become "rich" by the standards of greater society however, the autonomy and freedom to do the work they enjoyed did indeed make them wealthy, at least in terms of becoming self-sufficient and improving aspects of their health.


Self-Sufficiency

I can fix most anything---or rather, I can take most anything apart, replace the broken parts, and put it back together. From the first light switch that I replaced at my parents' house, to the lighting that I installed most recently at my own house, I have a skillset that can rival some handymen/women. I learned from my parents to watch, ask questions, listen and learn from anyone who does work for me. I often tell the workers, "I am watching closely because the next time I need this done, I will do it myself." (Well except for some plumbing work...I leave that to the professionals!).


In addition to wearing a toolbelt around the house, I also grow vegetables. Growing vegetables for one's household (and sometimes enough to share with others) is one of the most important skills that I learned from my mom and dad, skills that I am still developing. I grow multiple vegetable plants each summer outdoors and I also maintain an indoor tomato and pepper garden during the winter.


The ability to pick a squash, cucumber or tomato directly from the vine is one of the most satisfying experiences, and I can enjoy it throughout the summer. Given the sharp increase in grocery prices, it is especially appreciated this summer. If not for the rising temperatures and unpredictable weather caused by climate change, my garden spaces would surely flourish this year.





My back yard is my fortress of solitude. I planted shrubs strategically around the yard, creating a woodsy enclosure. I constructed a sitting area with a stone path and fencing (learned landscaping from watching my dad) that we call the Serenity Garden.


The peace I feel when sitting or working in the yard is wonderful. It is the place where I can observe the birds and rabbits that have taken shelter in one of our two tiny forest rain garden ecosystems, equipped with trees (acorns planted by squirrels), shrubs, and ground plants. It is where I spent most of my afternoons during the summer of 2020, 2021 and I am still spending time out there this summer.


The vegetable and fruit plants are within and outside the serenity garden, in large planters or in the ground. There is a large composter barrel that feeds one of our apple trees, which is also a great source of food when the squirrels are satisfied with eating just black walnuts and acorns, and do not pick from the tree.


A recent connection with a Black farming network (Southeastern African American Farmers’ Organic Network, SAAFON), and a seed company (Ujamaa Seeds), reminded me that gardening is more than just great for nutrition and physically rewarding work, but it is also spiritually rewarding.


Additional benefits of the green spaces are the improved air quality, and lower energy costs due to less need for air conditioning. I adopted several heat sink techniques from my LEED Accreditation training, the next of which might be a green roof. Outdoor shrubs and trees, as well as indoor plants, help to guarantee clean air in and around our homes --- a gift of improved generational lung health.





Good Health

CDC data on life expectancy shows that Black Americans have a lower life expectancy than white Americans. Although the expectancy gap is closing, it remains evident. Generally, health outcomes for Black Americans are poorer compared to our white peers. The disparities in COVID-19 deaths of Black Americans made the consequences of healthcare discrimination impossible to ignore.


Choosing to grow our own vegetables, getting exercise, and relieving stress naturally will improve our health and ensure we are around long enough to collect on our retirement and social security benefits.





Finding Success

Being successful means different things to different people. For some, it means being able to purchase a large home (or more than one!), luxury cars, boats, clothing, jewelry, etc. For others, having a family they are proud of, a job they love, and being able to afford the things they need and want---and having enough time to enjoy their success. I place myself on the spectrum closer to the latter and add to my definition of success, having self-sufficiency and good health.


In this generation of our family there is a new mantra that we often repeat: "Our health is our wealth." We choose not to spend our health seeking to generate material wealth, only to lose that material wealth when we experience health problems in our later years. Because well... moths, rust and thieves.